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REALITY Check #3

In dating…

Neither cadence nor compassion can be expressed through a text, to fully engage is to turn off your phone and listen to what’s being said.

In love…

Let your kindness and generosity be a gift that is selfless in nature. The moment you begin to give in hopes of receiving, is the moment your love becomes conditional.

In life…

No matter how shitty you feel, it’s nothing that a glass of wine, hunk of chocolate or sloppy dog kiss can’t fix.

 

 

-Erin D.

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REALITY check #2

In dating…

Dating can be difficult especially when you’ve a laundry list of qualities you insist on finding in a mate. Throw your list out for at least one night, you may just find a connection with someone you least expected.

In family…

Closed minded parents raise their children to believe in what they believe, well adjusted parents raise their children with the tools to think for themselves.

In friendship…

A friend is someone that’ll always tell you when there’s something stuck in your teeth!

-Erin D.

Getting a foot in the door

I had mentioned before that during my senior year in college I landed an internship at one of the most successful production companies in Los Angeles that was known for producing at the time, the hottest REALITY show on air. This truly was the experience that paved my way to becoming a successful producer in REALITY television, but getting the internship was anything but easy.

Let me breakdown the importance of an internship and then I will give you some suggestions on HOW TO LAND AN INTERNSHIP in REALITY television yourself.

Regardless if you’re just getting out of college or are looking to change careers, I can’t stress enough the benefits there are with taking an internship at a company that’s developing, creating and producing in your area of interest. I’m focusing on my experience breaking into REALITY television, because that was MY playground.

From a very young age we’re taught the importance of making money. We’re raised with our parents stressing the need for us to get good grades, prepare for college and if they’re lucky enough to have groomed us to be overachievers (I mean this in the nicest way possible) we’ll go on to further our education and become doctors, lawyers, engineers or possibly the CEO of some large tech company.

However, for most young adults we’re still discovering who we are once we graduate High School or even college for that matter and knowing the path to our career goals may take a bit of trial and error before we discover not only what we’re good at, but what we’d actually like to spend the next 30+ years doing.

THE BENEFITS OF INTERNING:

  • You get hands on experience assisting in a variety of departments within a company.
  • You discover if you’re truly interested in pursuing a career in that field.
  • You get a sense of the workload and time commitments required.
  • You make contacts you never would’ve had the opportunity of knowing.
  • You’re not bound to a contract and/or committed to a specific position.
  • You receive an education that can’t be offered through a text book.
  • You get all the free craft services you want.
  • You’re more likely to be hired after putting in face time around the office.

Now, here comes the difficult part, being hired as an intern. Getting the internship  during my last year in film school taught me a lesson in persistence, which is a quality I believe everyone needs to succeed, regardless of the field you’re pursuing.

HOW TO LAND AN INTERNSHIP IN REALITY TV:

  • Make a list of why you want to work in the specific field you’re pursuing.
  • Put Together a detailed resume and include your abilities (i.e. hard worker, self starter, detail oriented)
  • Decide where you’d like to intern and start COLD CALLING all the companies you’re interested in working for.
  • Check college job boards, staffing sites, craigslist.
  • Talk to everyone you meet about your desire to work in that field; you never know who someone might be related or connected to. (remember, in REALITY television almost ALL the jobs you book will come from networking, so expand your list of contacts).
  • Continue COLD CALLING and ask to be put on a list of interns interested in volunteering.
  • Create a LinkedIn account and connect with everyone you know.
  • Continue COLD CALLING.
  • Apply for positions within REALITY television that don’t require previous experience (i.e. P.A.or Transcriber/logger) you never know, so much is about timing.
  • Continue COLD CALLING.

The truth to how I landed my internship was that I called the production company every Monday for a month. I finally received a call back, at which time they told me they were all staffed up. I politely asked to be put on a waiting list, and by the sound of the voice on the other end, knew I would NEVER hear back from them. I printed up a copy of my latest resume, put it in an envelope and mailed it to the contact I had within that company (emails are so easy for people to delete when they don’t know the sender, however, a physical letter is much harder to throw away without at least opening it up).

After six weeks of relentlessly reaching out, I got the call, “Is this Erin? We have an opening for an intern, I see you’re name is on our list.Are you still interested in coming in?”  And while simultaneously picking my jaw up off the floor, while screaming “Hell yeah!!!!” (inside of course) I ran out, bought myself a new outfit and began my career in REALITY television!

 

REALITY check #1

In Television…

When creating, editing or producing a REALITY story line, follow your instinct on what feels right, because no matter how high up you are, there’ll always be someone above you that’ll change it!

In Life…

Guaranteed, you are bound to be served a basket of lemons throughout life, however, YOU are in control of what you make of them!

In Love…

Go easy on your partner, I’ve worked on enough REALITY dating shows to tell you that no one can compete with the romantic gestures created by a TEAM of talented producers!

-Erin D.

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Life Before Lupus

 

 

I wasn’t always sick, although once diagnosed, my illness somehow became my identity. Not for me per say, but everyone around me. I didn’t always have Lupus, I wasn’t always suffering from painful bouts of Colitis due to my IBD and I’d never spent the night in the hospital except after giving birth.

My childhood was a bit tumultuous, but that was to be expected having two parents that continually argued. While my father was an unpredictable, temperamental workaholic, my mother was a compassionate, loving, nurturing homemaker. And together my older sister and I lived a relatively balanced life.

I was an extremely outgoing child, loved to be the center of attention and possessed a deep desire to entertain, regardless of my venue. There wasn’t a birthday party, holiday gathering or classroom talent show where I didn’t end up on the top of some table singing my heart out. My parents would always say I was a “natural,” although looking back I wonder what they  meant by that. Honestly, I didn’t mind as long as all eyes were on me!

I spent most of my childhood  in music, voice and dance lessons. I participated in every summer theater program and was cast in every musical I auditioned for. My life revolved around the stage and as I continued to get older my desire of moving to New York and performing on Broadway were all I could dream about.

I began my college education as a music major, quickly shifted to theater and before I had finished my second year my whole life was turned upside down. I was 23 years old when my mom died of a terribly freak accident. While stepping off the porch  one morning she broke her toe, and a fragment of the bone ended up getting lodged in her lungs and killing her, just before her fifty-fifth birthday.

I was devastated losing my mom at such  a young age, she was everything to me; my cheerleader, my sounding board, my best friend and with a sick father battling Diabetes at home, I knew it would be a long time before I would step foot on any stage, much less one on the east coast.

My older sister sat me down and  in the gentlest way possible explained that our father wasn’t well and it was time I started getting REAL about my future. She suggested that I switch my major to something that could provide me with a solid paycheck , and that’s when I became a  television and film major with an emphasis in screenwriting. I redirected my creativity and passion to perform into storytelling, applied for a college internship on my first REALITY television show and viola! my career began.

My father died shortly after I became a producer, just four year after my mother passed and although I was crushed it was a pivotal moment in my life . I had the choice of allowing my pain and fear to take over me and just give up, or embrace the tools my parents bestowed upon me to fight.

I suffer daily from the painful symptoms that go along with having numerous auto immune diseases, and although it feels like I’m continually being knocked down, I’ve made the conscious decision to NEVER give up!

 

 

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